the-nerdfighter-notes:

The Nerdfighter Note Project is an event we have planned where on May 6th, Nerdfighters around the world join forces to spread the awesome and decrease world suck by leaving little nerdfighter notes. 

The idea is to leave them everywhere. Don’t limit yourself to John’s books! You can leave them in places related to Nerdfighteria in any way, or anywhere you think people need to experience a little more awesome. 

Interested in getting involved? Perfect! Spread the word, Nerdfighters! We need as many of you on board with this event as possible to spread the awesome!

Have ideas about how to make this better? 
Send us a message! This is a project for all nerdfighters, and everyone’s opinion and ideas only make it better.

I Used To Hate You
But…
Now All I Want To Do Is Say…

I’m Sorry…
Thank You For Being A Part Of My Life…
I Grew Because Of You… 

• At which point am I supposed to let go
• I can forgive eventually but i’ll never forget 

I Used To Hate You
But…
Now All I Want To Do Is Say…

I’m Sorry…
Thank You For Being A Part Of My Life…
I Grew Because Of You… 

• At which point am I supposed to let go
• I can forgive eventually but i’ll never forget 

willowcabin:

I love this article. 

“When you approach me in public, you are Schrödinger’s Rapist. You may or may not be a man who would commit rape. I won’t know for sure unless you start sexually assaulting me. I can’t see inside your head, and I don’t know your intentions. If you expect me to trust you—to accept you at face value as a nice sort of guy—you are not only failing to respect my reasonable caution, you are being cavalier about my personal safety.”

Found here.

Sooon! XD

Perf.

“I don’t care that Chris Brown is attractive he can beat me up anytime…”
“I’d do anything to have Chris Brown on me.”
Etc.

If women knew the real truth about abuse and the damages it does they wouldn’t be saying that.

I’m still fucked up and it’s been over a year. Yeah truth hurts doesn’t it.

Everyday there is a woman getting hit. Everyday there are women being raped. 
And EVERYDAY there is a man that goes too far and a woman is lost to his rage. So for those of you women who want to say it’s okay for this kind of thing to happen you’re offending the women that are lost to those harsh realities. You’re trashing their names and their stories to fulfill some school girl fantasy.

And that by definition is not “Okay”.

Wake the fuck up and stop pretending that abuse doesn’t happen and that it’s excusable. Otherwise you’re just giving a giant middle finger to those women who actually are abused and saying “FUCK YOU” you asked for it.